Provocation is a two-way traffic, there is an agent provocateur and the one who loses it all. Getting angry is easy, making sense of what you are mad about is difficult. Moreover, forgiving others for their mistakes is not easy and forgetting one’s own blunders is easy.
Contradictions are part of life, errors are part of life too. An attitude of acceptance of our mistakes and contradictions helps us remain in safe zone and away from provocation. It is important for our kids to let go mistakes of others too. Moreover, I don’t provoke and I won’t get provoked attitude makes it easy for kids.